Control

Control is something very convenient and very handy. It must be applied at the right place at the right time, like super glue. If you screw up with superglue, you get stuck and you can’t do anything. Control is the same way; you get stuck with it, and it sticks you to something that you don’t need to be stuck to you. You must be very selective about what you decide to control or not control.
— Bringers of the Dawn: Teachings from the Pleiadians